- High Expectations
- A Loving Classroom Culture
- Practice, Practice, Practice
#1: High Expectations
- Let your class know daily that you expect them to always try and never give up.
- Let them know that expecting their best does not mean perfection. In fact…
- Let them know that in your class mistakes are acceptable, even welcomed. Because mistakes are the best way for us to learn.
- Set attainable goals with them. You should know their goal. THEY should know their goal. What are they working towards today? This week? This month? At the beginning of the year, it might be as simple as raise your hand to speak. It’s still a goal.
- Praise effort! If you want your kids to try their best, praise them for trying!
For instance, imagine a toddler learning to walk. Parents don’t clap for the baby only after he’s been able to take 100 steps without falling. They clap and smile as soon as he stands up on his wobbly legs, even more, when he takes a teeny step. Parents are constantly praising and encouraging the effort the toddler is putting forth knowing that it will motivate and encourage him to keep trying; knowing that it will lead to him eventually walking.
- Don’t just praise. Give precise praise! “Good job!” is not enough. Even… “good job, with your letter writing.” isn’t enough. It doesn’t let the child know what it was he/she did that merited a good job. Instead try: “Wow, Jill. I can tell you’ve been working hard on your penmanship. I noticed your lower case letters are starting on the middle line.” You have acknowledged the accomplishment of nice letter writing and recognized the effort she’s put into it. Here are more ideas on ways to praise!
- Expect 100% of your class to participate. In other words, don’t start talking, teaching, explaining or any other -ing until all are ready. Moving on… shows the one not ready that your expectations are lower for him or her.
- Realize that every moment you spend with a child can be a moment you build them up or tear them down. It takes time to build a child up and very little time to tear them down. Most will believe the negative over the positive. All will hold on to the negative for a lot longer. Be the teacher that encourages them to believe the positive. Try to build your students up daily.
#2: A Loving Classroom Culture
Another thing that students need from their teachers is a loving classroom culture. Creating a loving classroom culture begins with you. This one is hard for me to talk about without delving into my own circumstances so I’m going to share with you a little bit about my school.
The area I teach in is a neighborhood that isn’t so safe. There is violence, drugs, shootings, arrests… weekly, if not daily. I mention this because it can help paint a picture of what my students face and have become accustomed to. The stresses they have are not normal for children their age to have. That is why a loving, caring, supportive, accepting environment is what they crave and what I try to give them when they come into my classroom.
Create a Safe Classroom
I tell them from day 1, that when they walk through our school’s gate, they can leave all their fears and worries. They are safe in my classroom. Safe from bullying, safe from hatred, safe from danger, etc. If they need to talk, I am there for them, if they need to cry, I am there for them, or if they need a hug, I am there for them.
In your own class, you will have students from all walks of life. Create an environment that is loving and safe. All children deserve a place where they feel loved. We can’t control home life but we can control the 7-8 hours they spend with us.
Every morning, I greet my students at the door. I smile at them and welcome them into my room. I express my happiness that they are there today or that I missed them if they were absent. (On a side note, whenever I’m absent… they tell me they missed me too.) It feels nice when others notice your absence. When they greet me, they can give me one of 3 H’s: a handshake, a high five, or a hug. I let them decide how they would like to greet me. It speaks volumes of how they are feeling. For example: If a student that normally gives high fives, hugs me, then I know something is up. I will usually talk to him or her at recess or the first chance I get. 9 times out of 10 something is up.
#3: Practice, Practice, Practice
Finally, something students need from their teachers are multiple opportunities to practice. I feel this goes with having high expectations too. I don’t accept mediocrity from my students. Does that sound mean? I hope not. To me, it goes hand in hand with high expectations. If they do something half-heartedly we try again until they’ve done their best.
Practice Makes Permanence
There is a saying that practice makes perfect… I can see why people would say that, but I disagree. However, I prefer to say practice makes permanence. The more kids practice routines and procedures correctly the more likely they will become permanent. Make sure to practice all routines and procedures until it’s done to your liking. If they aren’t doing it correctly, stop the class, and have them try again. Once you’ve done this for a few times, the students will catch on that you mean business and that you have high expectations.
What else do students need from their teachers? Here are some routines and procedures that seem essential to teach (and practice) the first week of school:
- walking into and out of the classroom; walking in the hallways
- putting away backpacks
- collecting folders, lunch money, important papers, homework
- where do papers go
- what to do if they need a new pencil
- how to come to the rug
- how to move around the room
- when can they get a pencil, use the restroom, get a drink
- how will they share with partners
- how will they get your attention
- what they should do when you need their attention
- how to use glue, scissors, and other school supplies